#Double sided strapon Pc

'Using a DSD without a harness tends to be a better option for those who have less experience with dildos or just want a more intimate experience.' That makes sense because few things are more intimate than scissoring with a dong, going back and forth via the power of your pelvic floor only.Ħ. Zing!) But Amanda Shea, 25, marketing and media manager for Eve's Garden, says harnesses are totally a personal preference. Cassie likes to use a harness because she found the dildo has a tendency to slip out in certain positions, especially if you're going at it really hard (which you always are because it's always hard. You don't need to use a harness - and actually it might be better not to use one if you're a beginner.

Cassie says she and her wife have been together for a long time, so they have no problem laughing at sexual awkwardness, such as 'if one or both of you is super close and the stupid thing slips out.' But that's harder to do with your Tinder date whose name you think is Jan?ĥ. Probably don't use it on a one-night stand because the awkward potential is very real. “Do you want one that looks like it could be your penis? If so, what does your dream dick look like?” Do you want to go with the realistic looking flesh-colored one? Or would your dream peen be glittery and a totally unrealistic neon color?Ĥ. Mace says that as with any purchase, consider what you’re buying it for before throwing down your money.

A few extra inches in between can make a big difference!”ģ. “A longer one reduces the risk of STI transmission (or infection, if you’re using both ends in yourself) as there will be less genital-to-genital contact, fluid passing from one partner to another, or the toy from going from your butt to your vagina. Mace, a sex educator, says to keep the length in mind when shopping for a double-sided dildo.

#Double sided strapon Pc

She recommends kegel eggs for keeping your PC muscles in great shape for DSD action.Ģ. Suzanne, 32, co-owner of and dildo connoisseur, says that modern double-sided dildos like the Tantus FeelDoe have ergonomic designs that make it easier to keep inside you, but all double-sided dildo use really benefits from having strong pelvic floor muscles. Here are some of the tips those women were able to give me to help you navigate double-sided dildo fun times with (greater) ease.ġ.

Both reasons could explain why so few of my queer friends had much experience with them, but the women I found who had experience were more than happy to talk. I really enjoy scissoring though and I want to take it to the next level, so I wish someone would start making smaller models!' That seems fair to me since the above photo looks like something you'd get someone as a joke for their 50th birthday.Ĭassie, 30, echoed similar sentiments, saying she found them to be 'scary' because of a scene she'd seen in Requiem for a Dream that involved a double-sided dildo that haunted her for life. She said, 'Even if I wanted to go for it anyway, the pain during and afterward wouldn't be worth it. My queer friends have never openly mentioned their love of double dongs in my company but it's totally possible they had never used them or maybe that's just the kind of thing you don't talk about while drinking pinot and watching Girls? I don't know, so I decided to ask several women directly instead of waiting for the magic moment when they mention them out of the blue because they'd been on their mind a lot lately.Īdira, 43, says she's always been interested in double-sided dildos but felt like they wouldn't be right for her because she found 'the products on the market are made for those with more room inside them than I have,' due to some issues with her pelvic floor. Buy Now Pink Double-Sided Dildo, YOVE (Available on Amazon), $20